Tantric massage is an immersive, sensual experience which aims to harness the sexual energies of the body for relaxation and healing in almost all other areas of life. It incorporates breathing techniques and genital stimulation as well as full body to body massage to promote complete relaxation of the mind and body, and bring you to a state of complete bliss. It will leave you feeling happier and more confident in your everyday life, and encourage the healthy expression of your sexual self.
Many people mistake tantra and tantric massage for a sexual service. So what is the tantric massage meaning? While the experience is deeply erotic and arousing, it aims to use the body’s sexual energies to promote healing and wellbeing in all areas of life rather than merely giving pleasure. Sexual energy is an incredibly powerful force, and tantric massage is one of the easiest ways to harness it to become more relaxed, confident, and sexually and emotionally self-aware.
Origins and History
Tantra has been practiced for more than 9,000 years, but it was only developed into a massage technique fairly recently. In the East it began as part of the Vedic tradition, a type of meditation that allowed the practitioner to achieve higher levels of spirituality. Tantric massage uses manual therapy to stimulate relaxation and pleasure within the mind and body, in order to achieve a similar state of self-awareness and consciousness.
Tantric massage was first developed by Germany in the 1980s. Later, the Lingam (phallus) and Yoni (vulva/vagina) massages were developed by Joseph Kramer and famed American sex educator Annie Sprinkle respectively.
Tantric massage, like tantra, is divided into giving and receiving. These roles are fairly strict in both tantric sex and tantric massage – the recipient must completely surrender themselves to being pleasured by the giver. In this way they are free to simply experience the pleasure of the massage, without concerning themselves with reciprocating, and concentrating on the heightening of their own sensuality.
What Makes it ‘Tantric’?
The art of tantra is thousands of years old, a technique that allows two people to unlock and fully experience the deep, erotic power of both their bodies. It literally means the expansion and weaving of energy, and focuses on meditation, yoga, and breathing techniques to achieve a higher consciousness using sexual energy. Tantric sex is about worshipping your partner as a deity, and encourages people to treat each other and their lovemaking with reverence.
During orgasm, the mind is at its quietest – this is the goal of most meditation. Many people find that tantric sex is a near religious experience, weaving their spirituality with the energies of their body and allowing them to be fully present in every moment as it occurs. You may have heard about tantric sex as a technique to increase staying power. The truth is that the extended lovemaking that results from tantric sex is merely a happy by-product of the main ritual.
If you can remain aroused for more than about 30 minutes, you will begin to experience this state of transcendence. During ordinary sex, this state is fleeting and only happens during orgasm. During tantric sex, this state persists throughout. It is this state that a tantric massage will induce and sustain.
Tantric massage combines the techniques of tantra and the techniques of massage to create an experience that is not about sexuality, but aims to relax and calm the mind and body while creating an arousing and sensual experience very similar to tantra. It unlocks sexual potential and emotional blockages and promotes confidence and wellbeing. While the massage is not about sexuality, it will help you to harness the incredible power of your orgasm and more finely control it, allowing you to use that power in every other area of your life.
Tantric sex is about aiding your body to relax so as to allow the sexual energies within you to flow freely. Part of that relaxation is due to breathing techniques – tantric massage uses body to body massage combined with breathing techniques in order to fully relax the mind and body and allow that sexual energy to surge forth.
How Tantric Massage Has Developed Over Time
As tantric massage migrated from East to West, it took on new aspects. In the East it is used mainly as a meditation technique, but in the West we use it for medical reasons as well. This might include healing from trauma, aiding with anxiety or self-esteem issues, and even embracing sexuality and improving our sex lives. In particular, men can benefit from learning how to embrace their sexuality. Women can also experience great benefits from tantric massage, as they are able to relax and allow themselves to be given pleasure without worrying about having to perform.
Health and Wellbeing Benefits
The health benefits of a tantric massage are enormous – as well as all the relaxation of a general massage, you will also experience an increase in your sexual confidence. Issues such as premature ejaculation can be aided greatly with this type of massage, and with repeated sessions you will find that your confidence and prowess will skyrocket. The breathing techniques you will learn will help you to control your orgasm much better, and you can use them to increase the sensuality and intensity of your lovemaking.
Tantric massage is deeply therapeutic, and will help you to know yourself better. This means that you will be better able to overcome emotional and self-esteem issues, which are often at the root of sexual dysfunction. You will also find that you sleep better and much more deeply, helping your body to heal itself long after the effects of the massage. If you have issues with stress, you will find that tantric massage can help with those too, making you feel much more relaxed and confident between sessions.
In addition to those benefits, tantric massage can also aid in pain relief, soothing those everyday aches away. It can help boost your immune system as well, making you less susceptible to colds and other illnesses. If you do reach climax during your massage then this has its own benefits, releasing feel-good hormones into your body that will keep you buoyed up for hours after the session has ended.
As well as being extremely pleasurable, a tantric massage can be a great boost to your confidence both in and out of the bedroom. It can help you to reconnect with your emotions and spirituality.
What to Expect When You Have a Tantric Massage
Our Girls
Our gorgeous girls are ready and waiting to bring you into a world of sensual satisfaction – each has her own specialities, so please do let us know if there’s anything you would particularly like to experience and we will match you up with your perfect masseuse. Whichever type of tantric massage you choose, your masseuse will use her whole body to relax you and induce a heightened state of sexual and sensual awareness.
Our girls are friendly and professional, as well as discreet and beautifully presented. Your masseuse will arrive conservatively dressed to your hotel, ready to slip off her clothes to reveal her delicious curves. She will use the highest quality massage oil on both of you to heighten the sensations that your body experiences as she allows her naked form to slide easily over yours. Feel free to discuss with her beforehand exactly what you need and are comfortable with. Your masseuse will use her whole body to massage and stimulate every area of your body, bringing you to dizzying heights of arousal and a completely relaxed state of pure bliss.
When you receive a tantric massage you must surrender yourself to the experience completely, and allow yourself to passively receive pleasure. Your duty is to receive, and to be fully present in the moment, experiencing each feeling as it arises. Don’t try to reciprocate, but allow your mind and body to simply be pleasured.
Male clients
Our male clients have the option of a lingam massage, which involves body to body massage incorporating massage of the phallus. Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the penis, and means ‘Staff of Light’. The phallus is an important centre of energy within the body, and an often neglected one. With a full body and lingam massage, your masseuse can help you harness this fantastic well of resources within yourself and show you how to use it to become stronger and more confident in your day to day life, as well as improving sexual confidence and prowess. This is really the heart of tantra: using your sexual energy to improve other areas of your life instead of simply releasing it. You have stored within you a well of incredible power that most people are never able to tap, but a full body and lingam massage can help to put you in touch with it. Many people find that they experience a rush of emotion as their masseuse unlocks this energy – simply let yourself experience it along with everything else that comes as part of one of our girls’ erotic tantric massages.
Your experienced masseuse will use her body to stimulate every inch of yours, and will use several manual techniques to stimulate the phallus. You may experience an erection, or you may not – it isn’t important either way, as there is no right or wrong way to experience the lingam massage. Don’t worry about your body’s reaction to the massage, simply let yourself experience it.
You may find that you reach climax during the massage – while it is not the aim of the massage, sometimes the body’s only way of expressing the energy that builds up is through orgasm. You should allow this to happen if it occurs, as the idea of tantric massage is to unblock any stuck sexual energies and allow them to flow freely, and this does often include a full-body orgasm. Try not to anticipate this however, as allowing your focus to concentrate on it will mean that you miss what is happening in the moment. Let your body experience the wonderful sensations as they happen.
This type of massage will help you to fully embrace your sexuality, rather than being a slave to it. It will help you reconnect with your masculinity and become stronger and more confident in your everyday life. Let one of our girls come and show you how to relinquish control for an hour or two; give yourself to pleasure and relax as she takes charge. As her sumptuous, oiled curves glide over your body, she will unlock within you a wonderland of peace, relaxation, confidence, and sensual bliss.
Female clients
Our lovely female clients are also able to experience the wonder of a tantric massage, with the full body and yoni massage. Yoni is the Sanskrit word for vagina or vulva, and literally translated, means ’Sacred Portal’. As well as a full body to body massage, your masseuse will help you get in touch with your sensual self through massage and stimulation of the vulva. She will talk through your options with you beforehand so that there are no surprises, and you can let her know exactly what you are comfortable with.
The aim is to clear any stuck energies held within the vulva to allow you to know yourself and your body better, and to understand more clearly what you want and need from your sexual partners. It is also to help you become more relaxed and confident in your day to day life, as well as promoting your emotional wellbeing. You may find yourself becoming emotional during your massage – that is perfectly normal, natural and expected, so just allow yourself to feel whatever you’re feeling without either focusing on it too much or pushing it away. This is simply the experience of the massage doing its job, and helping you reconnect with those buried emotions in a safe environment. Yoni massage can be a deeply healing experience – give yourself permission to feel everything in the moment, and be given pleasure and healing at once.
Like our male clients, you might find that you reach climax as part of the massage. While not the goal of the massage it is certainly very common, though not all of our female clients experience this. If you do, simply allow it to happen – as with everything during a tantric massage, you should try to fully experience the moment. Don’t let yourself focus on climaxing or worry about it either way, as this will pull you out of the experience.
You are the passive receiver during this type of tantric massage, so do not try to perform. This experience is about you and you alone, so allow yourself to be given this gift by your masseuse.
Breathing techniques
Your masseuse will show you breathing techniques which will help you to experience your massage to the fullest. These techniques will help you to relax and become immersed in the sensuality of the massage and your own body, and help you control your body’s sexual response to the massage. This means that should you reach climax during the massage, you will be able to experience a full-body orgasm instead of merely a localised one. Male clients may also find that they are able to achieve multiple climaxes if they are able to master these techniques and therefore control over their bodies’ responses.
These breathing techniques will not only enhance the sensuality of the full body massage experience, but will also aid in relaxation and help you to fully immerse yourself in the moment. This will help to balance your body’s energies and draw your mind, body and spirit closer together, and reconnect them.
Where Can I Find Out More?
The internet is a fantastic repository of information about tantric massage and specific techniques – this very website is chock-full of information! Have a look around and see which of our services most appeals to you. If you’re looking to experience the wonder and joy of a tantric massage for yourself, then please do pick up the phone and call us. Our gorgeous girls are waiting to hear from you, and cannot wait to come and share their expertise to bring you the most incredible full body tantric experience. If you have any questions then you can either ask us when you call, or talk with your masseuse when she arrives. When you choose to experience the beautiful, sensual wonder of a tantric massage, you are giving yourself one of life’s greatest gifts.
What is tantric massage? It is one of the best, most healing ways to get in touch with your spiritual, emotional, and sensual self. Give us a call, and let one of our girls come and help you to unlock your sensual potential.